Why Hello There! | #AnInspiredSeason

02 July 2015

An Inspired Season

Why Hello There! | #AnInspiredSeason

We all love to participate in challenges, whether they are 30 days long, or just a few times a week. During the month of July, I will be participating in Bailey's from Brave Love Blog and Katie from A Place to Dwell in a new series they call, An Inspired Season.

This is today's prompt: Introduce yourself by writing your biography as if being interviewed for The New York Times, sharing your history, accomplishments, and were you are right now. Complete it with what you would want t to say in the future (biggest dreams and goals included) in italics.

So, my New York Times interview is below:

I Write About You Blogger, Vanessa
The up and coming part-time blogger and full-time student, Vanessa, has come a long way since she began her blogging journey back in August 2013. With a lot that has changed, from the design of her blog to the changes in her life, we wanted to know what is she really up to. 

Describe a normal day for you?

My life is literally the simplest. I wake up, get ready for either work or school.

If I have work, then I'm usually in a rush just to get to work on time for an early shift. Then, I obviously work for at least 5 hours. I typically always buy my lunch at Subway across the street, and spend the rest of my 30/45 minute break watching netflix on my phone. I interact with a lot of customers at my part-time job, so smiling is a must throughout my day! Once my shift is over, I am literally in rush home to eat some good home-made food and rest with my feet elevated.

If I have school for the day, then it's even more simpler. I would drive my sister first to the Go-Bus Station, then head my over to school. Sit in the library for 2 hours, then head to class for another 2 hours or so. And head back to the library and wait until my sister get back to the Go-Bus-station. Then, proceed home.

See... I told you my life was simple aha.

You're a full-time student, what are you currently studying?

I am a 20-year-old full time student. In fact, I technically already entered into my 4th year of university. I am almost done completing my Double Major in both Anthropology (sciences) and Psychology; both going towards my Honours Bachelor of Sciences degree I will be receiving once I graduate. I think it is exciting, venturing out in two completely different fields of sciences, yet somehow being able to piece everything together through the study of evolution.

What are you plans after university?

At the moment, it is all one big confusion for me. I would love to attain my masters in psychology, but at the same time, it is very competitive with very limited jobs after wards. When I say limited, I mean limited jobs I want, not in general.

My plan is just to apply for everything, and then go from there. I will be applying into a 2-year program of nursing, applying to different schools for my Masters, and venturing out into programs in the medical field.

What are some facts about yourself you usually don't share upon first meeting you?

Oh, there are a few. I'm the type of person who feels like I'll be a "show-off" if I continuously talk about my achievements. That's why I usually don't say anything until I'm asked. 

• I have my junior black belt in karate
• I was in the Royal Canadian Air Cadets, attaining the rank as Warrant Officer First Class
• I literally have a wall full of medals, trophies and plaques I've received and earned 
• I have twice the amount of certificates 
• I used to be the in IB program in my high school, and achieving the IB French Certificate 

That's all I can really think of from the top of my head... But, I'm sure that is because I usually don't share these things right away, so of course they are not on the top of my head! 

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I'm linking up with #AnInspiredSeason hosted by Bailey @ Brave Love Blog and Katie @ A Place to Dwell  Check out the prompts for Tuesdays and Thursdays (click HERE)!   

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July Edition: Monthly Wishes + Happy Canada Day!

01 July 2015

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July Edition: Monthly Wishes + Happy Canada Day!

Happy Canada Day to all my fellow Canadians! 

Because it is already a new month, I can go on and on about how the days are quickly passing, and how we are already past the half mark of the 2015th year. I could save you the troubles of reading that thought process, and just go straight into my goals for the month. I choose just to go straight into the goals. 

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This Month's Wishes
1. Fitness. This month, I want to focus on fitness more than everything. I like my body and all, please don't get me wrong, it is just, I have certain areas -arms, stomach, chin- that I just want to get rid of. And, because it is impossible to just focus on one area, a complete fitness plan is needed - one that includes the diet portion and the workout portion. This month is a new month, and honestly, this is something I need and want to stick with. 
2. Kill summer school. This is the second half of summer school, and I will be taking Cognitive Development. Once I finish this course (in the end of August), I would have officially finish all the requirements for my Psychology major that goes towards my HBSc. It is exciting, and I cannot wait to just kill it. Wish me luck!
3. Make the money. Because I am literally only taking one course, this is the opportunity I have to make the money I need. I need the money to pay off my credit card bill, and then make the money for school essentials like books, and parking pass... oh, and not to mention tuition... It would also be nice to have money to go with friends, and for personal shopping. 
4. "Fix" my Blog. I love blogging, and I want to be more inspired to blog more.. if its not more, then at least have more bloggable posts. Not sure what that means exactly, but I think some of you understand! Also, when I say "fix", I'm thinking about moving. Not entirely sure about it yet, but it is something I've been definitely looking into. Hopefully this month, my research will help me understand the entire process.  5. Research my future. As September is quickly approaching, I am finding myself more and more worried about my future plans. Like what I will be doing after I graduate university, and beyond plans beyond that... This month, I really need to get my s**t together and figure out a plan. A plan for a career. 
It may look like I have a lot of heavy goals for the month, and I do. Hopefully, the fear of the unknown will push me towards getting everything completely. Especially the losing weight part.. I want to look amazing when I graduate in less than a year!

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If We Were On A Coffee Date | Vol. 2

30 June 2015

Coffee Dates

If We Were On A Coffee Date | Vol. 2

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If we were on a coffee date, I'd tell you that I went to Wasaga beach. Actually, I blogged about it already, so if you read that post, I wouldn't have to tell you... (HERE). It was both relaxing and somewhat fun. But nonetheless, it was a weekend getaway I really needed. Away from all the chaos happening here at home, school, and life in general!

If we were on a coffee date, I'd tell you that I'm nervous about the future. I've been thinking about about the what's I'm suppose to do after I graduate from uni. It is honestly nerve racking and just unsettling not to know because I do not have a solid plan. I need to really put my head and heart together to see what I really want to do in the future.

If we were on a coffee date, I'd tell you I read 3 books in this month alone. It would have been 4, but I actually got distracted being in Wasaga and not bringing the physical book with me there. In fact, I finished each book in less than 3 days. They were all John Green books - The Fault in my Stars definitely my favourite.

If we were on a coffee date, I'd tell you about my new phone. I love my new phone. It's the new Samsung 6 Edge. At first I thought I would low-key be upset about not being on the Apple side of things anymore, but the switch was incredibly easy! I'm actually very impressed with the phone, especially the camera.

If we were on a coffee date, we'd probably talk about OTNB. Yes, I love Orange is the New Black. Although, there are some interactions between characters that make me feel uncomfortable, but the story line overall is pretty great! I love the new character, Stella, played by Ruby Rose - and she is just absolutely gorgeous! I would also talk about how I feel really bad for Dayanara's character. The entire season, she defiantly suffered a lot. I'd probably go on an on, but I don't want to give spoilers to those who have yet to watch the season!

Hope to see y'all on our next coffee date!

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Some Friendships Just Don't Work Out

29 June 2015

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Some Friendships Just Don't Work Out

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It shouldn't be a surprise that I have a small group of friends. And, when I say small, I literally mean I have 6 great friends + my cousin and my sister; all of whom I can actually trust. I truly do not mind... but, it does piss me off when my cousin or sister joke around saying, "you don't have any friends". It pisses me off because they are the type of people to befriend everyone, and start trusting them all with their life stories.. I guess it's easier for them to be friends with everyone, and hang out with everyone. 

But, I'm different. I'm the shy one. I'm the one who has high standards when it comes to friendships. So, when it comes to friends, I want friends who are like me - loyal, trustworthy, honest, caring, and someone who will be there for me, especially when I need them the most. I don't have a bunch of acquaintances to  call "friends" if they don't cut it. To me, I see no point of sharing personal stories  or my time with people whom I know will probably just talk about it to others when I'm not around.

With that being said, please don't assume that I'm not friendly. Because I am, trust me. If I first meet a person, no matter the vibe you give off, good or bad, I'll still be friendly to with them. But, afterwards, I make the (un)conscious decision of whether or not I like him/her as a person which inevitably determines if we could ever be friends or not. 

I know I make this sound bad, but believe me it is not. It's just I've been burned by so many catty girls, and I just rather stay away from the drama. So, if that means I have a smaller group of close friends, instead of a bunch of acquaintances, I'm perfectly happy. 

In fact, just the other week, I decided to end one of the "friendships" that was recently developing. And, honestly I am sad about it, I really did see potential, especially considering the fact that she's Jay's best friends girl.. we could have been great friends! But, during the Wasaga getaway I recently went on, she displayed a side of her that I was just not feeling. She was so catty, and a spoiled brat just because she thought her boyfriend bought her a birthday present from Walmart (which, wasn't true.. it was a cover story to hide the fact that he bought her a Pandora ring). 

Anyways, she just became someone I didn't like. She is someone I really don't want to surround myself with. When she came to apologize to me for talking rudely and demeaning to Jay, her excuse basically included, "when I'm around my friends, we act like this." Well, if that is the case, I don't think I want to be around her and her friends. To me, it was just rude and unnecessary. 

It's unfortunate. We could have been really good friends. But, I guess some friendships are just not meant to work out. And, like I said continuously, I don't mind not being friends with people like that. 

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Silent Sunday #58

28 June 2015

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Silent Sunday #58

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High Park Adventures!

26 June 2015

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High Park Adventures!

I have a confession to make about this post before I continue.. This post is relatively late. Okay, maybe a month or 2. But, as I was cleaning up some past posts, I actually found this post in my drafts. And, instead of having this post go to waste, I decided to share it with you all! 

This was probably the first time we hung out since the summer, of last year. So, few days prior to actually meeting up, and hanging out, we chose the most random, and surprisingly, only free date that we were ALL available on!  We actually decided to meet up at Dufferin mall because N wanted us to try a shwarma pizza. Because, her brother actually went to high school close by, we decided to wait till he was done school, and asked him to join us. WE realized that he only met up with us only so that he had something to eat. That's our cousin for you. 

The pizza shop was interesting to say the least. High school boys everywhere. Being short and all, it was no surprise that people tend to think that N and I are younger than we really are. So, we weren't really all that surprised when one of the guys asked us how old we were. N, being who she is, actually forgot and decided to age us by 2-3 years. It's all good! It worked out best as they left us alone. 

We then proceeded to high park. When we got there, we all agreed that we chose the worst day to go to High Park. Why? Well, it was the first day the flowers on the trees were budding. So, it was crowded! And, finding a place to park was just worst! We, eventually found a parking, and set off our adventure. We ate our pizza on a nearby bench; then proceeded to walk around and take pictures, just as everyone else around us did. Walking down the park, we discovered a water part that we've never saw until that day. Which is surprising, because we basically grew up playing at High Park when we were younger. 

We actually found our way to the zoo. And, like we were little, we didn't go through the entire thing. Watching the animals behinds fences made us sad; plus they smelled.. IT was a zoo with a lot of buffalo.. 

But overall, we were glad we had a cousins day. It was definitely long over due. Can't wait till we hang out more in the summer!

I just love summer! Cannot wait to see what the rest of the summer has in store for me!

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#tbt to Last June

25 June 2015

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#tbt to Last June

I had a few Silent Sunday photos to choose from last year in June: Silent Sunday #23, #24, #25, #26,  and #27. I decided to briefly talk about #26.. my Penelope of course! It has been a while since I last spoke of her, so a good throw back wouldn't be so bad for the both of us!

I actually remember this day perfectly. Penelope has been apart of our home for about 3 months now. And, as you can tell, Penelope has taken no time to already make our home apart of hers! She is a little sassy one, let me tell you that. I do not know if you can tell, in the photo she is on top of a table we have in the living room. How she jumped up there, still surprises us as she has started to develop the habit to jump onto higher and higher objects!

What's in her mouth? This is why she is so sassy. In her mouth, she is currently eating a leaf from a bed of flowers we set on the table. And, when my sister of mom tried to shoo her off of the table, or remove the lead from her mouth, Penelope would make this grunt sound. It was hilarious!  'Cos the grunting sound is her way of showing anger, and as she would grunt she stomps her feet. It's like this attitude thing rabbits have (yes... I've googled it!)

You had to be there to understand how cute and funny it was. Plus, she was such a baby, which made this entire thing that much more cuter!

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