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31 January 2014

2014 So Far...

31 January 2014

2014 So Far...

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It's not only Friday, but is it also the last day of  the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen
Click HERE to see some of my previous posts for this challenge.

Todays topic:
Friday, January 31: Last day of the month! Reflect on how 2014 has been so far.
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2014 so far has been both good and day to me.  Let's face it... this is life. It cannot alway be good nor can it always be bad.  But I think learning from your mistakes and the misfortunes makes you into the person you are today. Don't you think?
2014 is definitely nothing like 2013. When I said I wanted to change for the better, I meant it. And I felt so far in this new year, (not so new anymore), I am working towards my goals.  Which is a great feeling! I finally got into the habit of going to the gym regularly, and I am making more of an effort to just have fun with my friends.  I've also been keeping up with my readings, which has been such a great feeling! I don't feel stressed out about being behind as I used to. 
It's the last day of January, and I can only continue to hope for good things for the rest of the months to come.  I'm hoping my positivity will continue to grow onto others around me and continue to be with my thoughts, words and actions.  
So far, I've been trusting God more.  It's weird for me to say that because I've felt like a great Christian following my religion throughout my entire life. And this month, I've learn so much more about my faith than I did during my past years.  It's amazing how the littlest, or even the biggest, experiences can seriously change the outlook one's life. 
I don't want to spend on too much detail talking about the good and bad.  The good is just a great motivator for me to continue my hard work, while the bad is just a reminder to me what I should do differently when put in a similar situation.  
I could only hope for good things to come for the rest of my journey, in hopes of finding me. 
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30 January 2014

Teasing the Mister

30 January 2014

Teasing the Mister

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It is day 22 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen! Just 1 more day left for this challenge. Click HERE to see the rest of the blog prompts!

Todays topic:
Thursday, January 30: Tell us something you always remind you husband/fiancé/boyfriend about. For example, "Happy wife happy life." Let's face it, it's fun to tease them!

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I find this topic quite humorous actually. I used to always tell Jay, "Happy wife = happy life" and he would laugh every time and respond, "Car part = happy husband".  Yes... he's one of those kind of guys who just love working on car, especially his own, and just building it and building it while buying all these different car parts and tools.
That's why when it comes to his paydays, I always (jokingly) play with him by reminding him that I like jewellery or that I need a new pair of heels.  It's quite funny actually, because on the Friday mornings he gets paid, he wakes up earlier than usual to check his bank account just to make sure he got paid.  And when he's all excited to buy a car part later that night, I usually just mention, "don't forget I like jewelry to!".  And he would just laugh and say "Sure sweetheart". 
And this teasing I do with him pretty much last all day long! When he would get home from work and he's on his laptop just looking for part on ebay or other sites, I would ask him, "so did you find anything nice for me?" and he would joke around saying "yeah of course; car parts would look nice for my car for you to sit and look gorgeous in". 
Yeah I forgot to mention that he likes to tease me back :)
Haha, what about you guys? Tease your man a lot... let me know! I'm actually curious to see what things you all do to your men.
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29 January 2014

Wordless Wednesday

29 January 2014

Wordless Wednesday

Humpday already? I'm linking up for day 19 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen
I'm also linking up for the first time with Cami for Wordless Wednesday. 

Todays topic:
Wednesday, January 29: Only photos.
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28 January 2014

Worst Gift I've Ever Received

28 January 2014

Worst Gift I've Ever Received

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Good morning everyone! I'm still keeping up with this blog challenge, and I must say, I am pretty proud of myself.  It is day 19 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen

Only a few more days left of January, and 3 more days left for this challenge. Click HERE to see the rest of the blog prompts!

Todays topic:
Tuesday, January 28: The worst gift you've ever received.

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When it comes to gift gifting and receiving between my cousins and I, we like to give each other gifts that just make us die with laughter.  So yes there is meaning behind the gifts, but there is usually a joke associated with them.

So I would have to say that the worst gift I've ever received was socks. It was my cousin and sister who gave it to me for my birthday when I was younger.  It was only because that was just the first gift they gave me.  It was just a cover up for the awesome gift they later gave me that night.

What's the worst gift you ever received? Let me know!

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27 January 2014

My Pet Peeve

27 January 2014

My Pet Peeve

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Happy Monday everyone! Can you believe how deligent I was to actually keep up with this challenge? It is day 18 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen

Only a few more days left of January, and 4 more days left for this challenge. Click HERE to see the rest of the blog prompts!

Todays topic:
Monday, January 27: The littlest thing can set us off. Right about a pet peeve and try to get creative!
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When someone says to me, 
just really takes the cake when it comes to getting inside my head.


I find it so annoying and ignorant for someone who doesn't know what I had to do to get what I received.  And let me tell you, I received a lot of medals, awards, positions, certificates, and opportunity after opportunity because I put so much effort, time and commitment to everything I've ever been apart of. 

If you're anything like me, you'll understand why this is a pet peeve of mine. It is honestly such a shame for people to constantly think that everything is handed to me, because in reality, that never happens.

Like I said, I worked extremely hard and put in a lot of my time and effort to achieve all that I have received in my life.  I put in the effort to get what I want. If anything, I probably worked harder than the person who is complaining because I achieved something that they didn't.  And yes, as selfish as that sounds, I'm actually not.  

If I received an award/opportunity, it is because I tried and worked my butt off just to get it.  There is no need for anyone to ever put someone's achievements down, especially when they don't know how much time and effort they endured just to get what they have. 

And this how my whole life has been.  Dealing with arrogant people who see's the amount of work I do, yet think I receive everything. It's ridiculous, and actually quite offensive to think that my hard work is clearly going unnoticed. 

Sorry to get angry on my blog that is usually positive... this is my pet peeve, and even thinking about the past people who's ever said that to me just sets me off. 

What your pet peeve? Let me know!
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23 January 2014

My Baby MJ

23 January 2014

My Baby MJ

Hello fellow bloggers.  It's day 16 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen
Todays topic:
Thursday, January 23: Many new babies have been introduced into the blogging world in the last year. Tell us about one of the funniest moments you've had with them.
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When I saw this topic, I immediately thought to myself, "well what on earth am I suppose to blog about?"  I have no child, I am still a 19 year old student still trying to figure things out with my own life, let alone bring a new one into this world.  Then I thought, instead of not participating in today's challenge, I'll be a little creative with my answer. 
This is my baby, MJ. Yes he's a rabbit, but I take care of him like he's part of our family.  If you recall, I first blogged about him back in November as The NEW Addition.  Needless to say, he's still a baby to Jay and I, and it is safe to express that MJ is definitely getting comfortable with us. 
The funniest moments I have with this little guy is that whenever he is hungry (even though he just ate), he will scurry to where we keep his food, as he makes an attempt to create a hole in the bag.  And when he makes a hole, he would literally fall inside the bag just eating away. He is too adorable! Like he would literally go out of his way just to find the bag, just jumping and climbing everywhere and anything just get him soon food!
Any funny moments with your babies? Don't forget to link up!
Tomorrow's topic:
Friday, January 24: Share some new trends/makeup/online shops you've found recently and include a few photos!
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22 January 2014

Some Personal Goals

22 January 2014

Some Personal Goals

Hello fellow bloggers.  It's day 14 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen
Todays topic:
Wednesday, January 22: What are some personal goals you'd like to work on this year?
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I think this is a great blog topic as it has already been 22 days since 2014, and I'm pretty most of you out there have either forgotten your New Years resolutions, or like me... just got lazy a little to early.  So I'm going to take this post as seriously as possible as I mention someone of my more personal goals for this year.
Personal Goals:  
  • Continue to keep up/ stay ahead of the readings for all my classes - this has actually made learning and listening in class so much easier for me this semester.  Just got to continue and keep this up, and my GPA will continue to increase as I reach my goal!
  • Workout, workout, workout.  This is something I say all the time, and I think to make myself push myself more, I'm going to have to blog about my fitness progress as a motivator.  Summer is quickly approaching, and I want to strut my stuff at the beach with all the confidence in the world. 
  • Writing more.  This one is a little different... As our technology continues to grow, I find myself always typing everything. All of elementary school and high school, everyone always complimented on how beautiful my handwriting is.  I don't want to lose that skill. So I will practice writing some more, and maybe start writing poetry again.
  • Read more. I love to read, I really do. I am so in love with the idea of just escaping from reality and reading about the life of another person. So, that means I have to balance out textbook readings for my classes and leisure reading.
  • Live everyday on the positive side. I need to live my life the best I can everyday and with everyone. I want to live a life without any regrets. 
So these are just some of the few personal goals I have from the top of my head. I'm sure when I'm not even thinking about this topic, I'll have a whole new set of list with lots of goals. What are some of your personal goals?  Don't forget to link up!

If you're interested in joining in tomorrow's topic, here's the prompt:
Thursday, January 23: many new babies have been introduced into the blogging world in the last year. Tell us about one of the funniest moments you've had with them.


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21 January 2014

Upcoming Vacation Trips

21 January 2014

Upcoming Vacation Trips

Hello fellow bloggers.  It's day 14 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen
Todays topic:
Tuesday, January 21: Do you have any awesome vactions planned for the year? If not, where would be your ideal spot? 
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If you know anything about my family, you know we are HUGE travellers.  When my sister and I were younger, our family would literally travel somewhere new at least once a year.  As I started my first year of university last year, and my sister was working diligently studying for her IB exams/labs/tests last year and this year, our family decided to tone down the travelling that we do. 
Never the less, that doesn't mean we don't travel anymore, we just had to minimize our trips so that my sister and I can focus on keeping up with our grades. Because lets face it, when you're on vacation, nothing back home matters. 
Anyways, this year my family is planning TWO trips (that I know of so far).  
In the summer, we are planning on travelling with my Godbrother's family to.... ROME! Their family, as like my family, are really religious, and the parents' goal is to go see the Pope. I personally think that is very exciting, as Rome is somewhere I definitely need to travel to! But this is still in the planning phrase, so let's keep our fingers crossed!

The other trip my dad is planning, is going to Cuba.  He loves it there.  He practically goes there 3 times a year with his boys and they have a blast and he wants my family to experience it.  This has been his plan since time.. and knowing my dad... we're probably going to go next year when he actually sits down and plans properly. 
Well those are somewhat the ideas my family has for our travels this year.  Do you have any vacations planned this year? Let me know! 
Click HERE to link to up today's link up!  And if you're interested in joining in along the fun, tomorrow's topic is:
Wednesday, January 22: What are some personal goals you'd like to work on this year?

 
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20 January 2014

Struggling in First Year

20 January 2014

Struggling in First Year

Happy Monday everyone! 
Welcome back to day 13 of the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, hosted by Lisa and Kristen! Todays topic:
Monday, January 20: Write about a struggle you overcame in 2013 
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Struggle.. struggle.. struggle.  Hmm today's topic seems to be hard, not because I didn't struggle with anything throughout the entire, but because I have to choose ONE. But there are a few instances that I can easily remember as those situations stick out rather quite well.

Last year, I was struggling with confidence.  Being in first year of university, I wanted to make friends so that I would feel comfortable, but I didn't have the courage to put myself out there.  Basically, I kept sticking with the 2 friends that I knew going into the same university as me.

Then I thought about it... I can't be hiding behind these same friends for the next four years.  I need to learn how to branch out on my own, make my own set of friends and become better with opening up.

I think it is safe to say that I was the first from my small group of friends branching out. Little did I know, by doing so, I was able to make different friends from my different classes.  I, of course, introduced these few new friends, to my other friends, and then voila, a new group of us.

Of course, by the time second year started (in September), I had classes with some of these friends, and made new ones along the way. This is all because I went out of my comfort zone and made the effort to make the friends I have today.

Is there a struggle you over came in 2013? Let me know! Or Click HERE to link up!

Join in tomorrows prompt:
Tuesday, January 21: Do you have any awesome vacations planned for the year? If not, where would be your ideals spot?
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17 January 2014

What Inspires Me

17 January 2014

What Inspires Me

Today is day 12 of the Inspire Me blog challenge hosted by both Showered With Design and Happiness is a Mood Not a Destination! Today's blog topic is: 
Friday, January 17: What Inspires your blog posts? 
Get a little deep and pick a past post that is meaningful to you.

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My answer to this question is very simple, whenever I experience something meaningful enough to share with others, I pretty much blog about it. Other days, ideas just come into my head and I can sit down just writing 2-3 blog posts that I will use later on during the week.  I mean there are some other days where I have no idea what to write about, so I sit there hard. 

But in all honestly, its the interaction with my friends and family that inspires me to blog.  It's the experiences that are worth noting to share.  Since this blog isn't really specific to make-up, or outfits, of course I'm going to write things about my life for others to learn from. 

Now for the second part of today's blog prompt, there's one post that means a lot to me.  
Thankful for You. I wrote that post inspired by the events that occurred that day, and what I've learnt about myself and about my feelings based on that day. 

What inspires you to blog? I'm curious to know if there are others out there who don't need inspiration and just write brilliant things!

Keep warm for the weekend!

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16 January 2014

My Winter Wonderland

16 January 2014

My Winter Wonderland

Today is day 11 of the Inspire Me blog challenge hosted by both Showered With Design and Happiness is a Mood Not a Destination! Today's blog topic is: 
Thursday, January 16: I'm a New England girl and used to taking pictures of the beautiful son but some of you don't get to experience that.  
Take a photo of what your "winter wonderland" looks like.

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So here is how my my winter wonderland looks like! These are pictures I took during the ice storm just last month.  I am a fan of the beauty the white snow brings, I just do not like the cold that has to come along with it. 

But my winter wonderland includes a white blanket of snow! I just enjoy the beautiful scenery that the snow offers when it just lays onto of the snow branches!






What does your winter wonderland look like?!


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15 January 2014

A Letter to Myself

15 January 2014

A Letter to Myself

Today is day 10 of the Inspire Me blog challenge hosted by both Showered With Design and Happiness is a Mood Not a Destination! Today's blog topic is: 
Wednesday, January 15: Write a letter to yourself and don't open it until the end of the year! 
It's fun to see the difference a year can make!

If you're interested in participating, click HERE to see this month's post topics!
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So here it is, the letter I wrote to myself... Please don't judge me on how vulnerable I am feeling... thanks.


I'm interested in seeing what happens to myself through the year... Hopefully I'll be stronger than I am today, and better able to handle situations that may come up.

Are you writing a letter to yourself? IF so, don't forget to link up and let me know if you're also interested in joining in today's challenge!

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Quick Update: A few days you may have read my post Random Acts of Kindness where I talked about the many ideas I have for the random acts I am planning on doing for the year.  And since this morning I woke up feeling great and amazing, and I decided to make someone else's day! At the drive through of Tim Hortons, I paid for the coffee of the person behind me!

Yay! It feels good to secretly make the day of another person!

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If you're interested in joining in tomorrow for the Inspire Me Blog Challenge, here's tomorrows prompt:
Thursday, January 16: I'm a New England girl and used to taking pictures of the beautiful snow but some of you don't get to experience that.  Take a photo of what your "winter wonderland" looks like.


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14 January 2014

Creating a Post Divider

14 January 2014

Creating a Post Divider


So today, I decided to do my first DIY Blog Design: How to create your own post divider. Creating one is actually VERY easy, and you will be pleased by the end of it! If you have no idea how to use HTML codes (as I don't), you're in luck! This blog design aspect is literally just copying and pasting!

What is a post divider?

It's exactly what it sound like, an image that is interested into the layout of your blog with the purpose of visually dividing your post!

Why have a post divider?

For a sophistical answer, it helps other bloggers see the send of a post, and the beginning of a new one, especially if your post have A LOT of text and few pictures.

Other than that... it ultimately looks pretty! (which is why I have one!)

So you want one? Let's begin! ; You can use any programs, I like using Picmonkey!

Step 1: Create a custom image* sized approx. 150px less than the width of your post section by 50px.

For example: the width of my post section is 880px, so the dimension of my divider should be approximately 730px x 50px.

Calculate the width of your post section by going to TEMPLATE, click on CUSTOMIZE, then go to the section ADJUST WIDTHS.  






Step 2: Upload your image somewhere that allows you to obtain the image location - you're only going to need the image URL.

Most people use photo bucket or picasa! As long as your able to get the image URL, it will be fine wherever you post it.  I post mine onto my private separate blog that I use only for designing my blog.


Step 3: Copy and paste this code into your Custom CSS section (Template --> Customize --> Advance --> CSS)

.post{
margin: 0 0 40px 0;
width: 90%;
background: url(YOUR IMAGE URL HERE);
background-repeat: no-repeat;
background-position: bottom center;
margin:.5em 0 1.5em;
padding-bottom:3.5em;
}

The image URL (or Image Address) you copies goes where "YOUR IMAGE URL HERE" says.


Step 4: Click Apply to Blog to save. And tada! There you have it! 

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13 January 2014

Advice for the New Year

13 January 2014

Advice for the New Year

Good morning everyone on this very lovely morning (no sarcasm here).  It's not cold outside, and that's such a great way to start off my Monday and week!

Today is day 8 of the Inspire Me blog challenge hosted by both Showered With Design and Happiness is a Mood Not a Destination! Today's blog topic is:

Monday, January 14: Best advice for the New Year
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Talking to other people, and looking at other people's blogs, I've notice that basically everyone's New Year resolution is to lose weight, get fit, or just exercise more.  As like everyone else, one of my New Year resolution is to exercise more regularly to become more fit and hopefully hit my goal weight.

My advice to all of you out there, is to be patient and be realistic with you results.  I don't know how many times I've gotten frustrated because I don't look a certain way when I hit my goal weight.  It's frustrating and it sucks, and it just makes me think less motivated or confident to go out and do my thing.

Let's be realistic here...we all have that perfect body image stuck in out head and we cannot help but want to attain that.  But during your fitness progress, I think it is important to always remember that we are all built differently, and we should be happy and celebrate our unique bodies through good nutrition and exercise.

It's good to have a healthy role model in our minds, it keeps you away from being unhealthy. But it becomes unhealthy when you slowly start work extremely hard to attain a body type that you're body won't allow.

For example, growing up I idolized Angelina Jolie's body type.  Through my many years of working out, I've always began to get extremely discouraged when I couldn't have her body.  Then when Christina Aguilera came out with her thick body, I fell in love.  She made me realize that we are all different, and we all lose weight and present ourselves differently.

So overall, be realistic and patient when it comes to your weight loss goal.  And most importantly, don't forget: We are all made differently, we cannot look the same.  Celebrate the curves, or ass, or boobs that you have!

Have a great Monday!

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